Proverbs 5:21-23 gives us a sober reminder: “For the Lord sees clearly what a man does, examining every path he takes.”
Think about the truth of that verse for a second. Without a doubt, we live in a world where it’s all too easy to curate a perfect image on social media. An absolutely perfect outward appearance. In fact, we edit our feeds and filter our photos. Along with that, we keep a smile on our faces and make our lives look picture-perfect. It happens not only online but also in real life. But, even if we fool our followers and neighbors, God isn’t deceived. He sees everything. Because of this, no filter, highlight reel, or act we put on for others can hide the truth from Him. We’ve exposed our motivations, mistakes, and struggles to the One who examines every step we take.
The next verse brings an even heavier reality into light, “An evil man is held captive by his own sins; they are ropes that catch and hold him.” Today’s culture tells us that absolute freedom means doing whatever feels good. In fact, we’re to live without boundaries, chase our desires, or simply act on impulse. However, there’s a twist. That so-called “freedom” often leads to chains. It’s like when influencers pretend to live perfect, carefree lives but later admit to feeling trapped by anxiety, loneliness, or addiction. Sin often feels like freedom at first, but it quickly becomes a trap.
Verse 23 drives the point home, “He will die for lack of self-control; he will be lost because of his great foolishness.” In other words, self-control isn’t a small, optional virtue. It’s always a big deal.
It All Matters
We’ve often seen how a lack of self-control ruins lives. It’s a naturally slippery slope — a little indulgence here, another reckless decision there. Just think about it. People get caught in scandals (or lose their reputations) because of one careless act.
So, what can we do? First, we need to recognize that the paths we pave matter! No matter how small, every decision has a direction (and consequence). Are we walking toward a deeper relationship with God or making choices that lead to bondage? Second, let’s be honest about our struggles. We all have areas where we need God’s help to break free from chains of sin. But take comfort that ‘His understanding is beyond comprehension’ (Psalm 147:5, NLT). God knows us fully. This includes our weaknesses. Yet His power is absolute, ready to help us cultivate self-control.
For this reason, let’s ask for His strength and wisdom to guide our steps this week. We know He sees everything and certainly understands more than we ever could. And finally, let’s take heart in God’s grace. While He sees our every move, He doesn’t watch from a distance. He’s ready to forgive, to give us insight, and to lead us. But we need to turn to Him.
Freedom unquestionably begins when we invite God into our struggles and trust His infinite power to lead us.
Learning to pave paths with the Lord,
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